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Questioning…Again

The Dating Game

So Christmas is over and now I’m back to all the dating apps. It’s hard enough to find one where bisexual is an option, let alone pansexual.

I tend to a couple of months with my profile saying that I’m interested in men, then the same with women. It seems to work for me.

Going out to a club and bringing a guy home is easy, with girls it seems much harder. Maybe I’m just not going to the right clubs.

I don’t sleep around, I can count and name all the people I have slept with on one hand.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that romance is difficult to find. Or it feels that way for me. Not many people are not open to polyamory. I don’t even know if I want a polyamorous relationship.

I’m still young and have time to figure all this out. Let’s just hope that for now, I can at least get myself a date 😊

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My First Blog Post

I’ve never really done anything like this before, but I want to ‘let it out’ and this feels like a good way to do just that.

Bit of background.

When I was in primary school I began to think I may be a lesbian. Maybe it was the porn, maybe it was the comments from people at school. By the time I was 13 I ‘knew’ I was bisexual, and told a couple of my friends. To which, their reaction was, “So, does that mean to fancy me?”. I explained what it meant and they were ok with it and we never really spoke of it again. When I was 15 I became really close with another girl who was ‘questioning’ and she gave me the confidence I needed to officially ‘come out’. So, at 16 I came out as bisexual on Facebook.

5 years on…

I’m now 21 and society would label me as a polyamorous pansexual. So, theres a bit of controversy for you. I’m not keep of societal labels or boundaries. And growing up in a family where we don’t talk about sexuality or anything, a blog seemed like the way to go.

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