The Dating Game

So Christmas is over and now I’m back to all the dating apps. It’s hard enough to find one where bisexual is an option, let alone pansexual.

I tend to a couple of months with my profile saying that I’m interested in men, then the same with women. It seems to work for me.

Going out to a club and bringing a guy home is easy, with girls it seems much harder. Maybe I’m just not going to the right clubs.

I don’t sleep around, I can count and name all the people I have slept with on one hand.

I guess what I’m trying to say is that romance is difficult to find. Or it feels that way for me. Not many people are not open to polyamory. I don’t even know if I want a polyamorous relationship.

I’m still young and have time to figure all this out. Let’s just hope that for now, I can at least get myself a date 😊


My First Blog Post

I’ve never really done anything like this before, but I want to ‘let it out’ and this feels like a good way to do just that.

Bit of background.

When I was in primary school I began to think I may be a lesbian. Maybe it was the porn, maybe it was the comments from people at school. By the time I was 13 I ‘knew’ I was bisexual, and told a couple of my friends. To which, their reaction was, “So, does that mean to fancy me?”. I explained what it meant and they were ok with it and we never really spoke of it again. When I was 15 I became really close with another girl who was ‘questioning’ and she gave me the confidence I needed to officially ‘come out’. So, at 16 I came out as bisexual on Facebook.

5 years on…

I’m now 21 and society would label me as a polyamorous pansexual. So, theres a bit of controversy for you. I’m not keep of societal labels or boundaries. And growing up in a family where we don’t talk about sexuality or anything, a blog seemed like the way to go.

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